Losing a pet is one of the most heartbreaking experiences we’ll ever face. And yet, during those final moments or the hours right after, we’re often asked to make decisions when we’re not emotionally prepared to think clearly through.
As someone who has been through this—and has talked with many others while creating Complete Keepsake Pet Memorial Etchings—I’ve seen the same heartbreaking regret again and again:
“I wish I had asked for a nose print.”
“I wish I had saved a clipping of their fur.”
“I didn’t even know I could ask for that.”
So let’s talk about what no one tells you in advance: how to prepare for aftercare while your heart is still whole.
Ask for Everything—Even if You Don’t Think You’ll Need It
You may not feel ready to face these decisions until the moment comes. But I promise you, you’ll likely kick yourself later if you don’t ask for everything. I did. And so have many of the grieving pet parents I’ve worked with.
Here’s what I recommend:
- Ask for both a paw print and a nose print on paper (not just the clay impression of their paw print). These are more versatile for keepsakes and artwork.
- Request a small fur clipping, especially from a spot that reminds you of your pet’s personality (like that little tuft on their chest or behind their ear).
- Better yet: make your own prints now while your pet is still with you and healthy. You can follow this guide I shared to create beautiful, lasting impressions from home.
These simple steps can mean the world later when you’re looking for ways to honor their memory.
Know Your Cremation Options
Most pet parents are surprised to learn they have choices when it comes to cremation.
- Private cremation means your pet is cremated alone, and the ashes returned to you are theirs and theirs alone.
- Communal (or group) cremation is more affordable, but ashes are a little from all.
- A more eco-friendly and gentler option is aquamation—a water-based process that uses low energy, has zero emissions, and returns more ashes.
We personally used Paws And Claws Aquamation in Orange for one of our dogs, and I can’t say enough about how caring and compassionate they were. Another beautiful option is Monarch Pet Memorial in Florida, which also offers aquamation services with heart.
Keepsakes That Heal
Whether it’s paw prints for dogs or a pet nose print, these tangible pieces of your pet’s presence can bring immense comfort.
When I create memorial etchings, there’s nothing more painful than hearing, “I wish I had saved that.” That’s why I gently encourage you to prepare ahead—even if it feels too early.
Because when the time comes, and the questions are asked, you’ll be glad you already knew the answer.
If you’d like help creating your own nose print or paw print now—while your pet is still joyfully beside you—this post walks you through how to do it at home, lovingly and simply.
